Signs of Cat Affection

Cats have a reputation for being aloof and unaffectionate, but that just isn’t the case!

Cat’s show their love and devotion to their human caregivers in many ways. People often misunderstand cats asking for attention as them asking for food – one of the reasons we see so many Overweight Kitties in our practice.

Take notice the next time you see your cat walking around the house, he will be walking with his tail straight up in the air, possibly with a kink at the tip. This posture between cats is a sign of affection. So when your cat comes up to greet you with his tail in the air it is also a sign that he is glad you are home and he loves you!

Headbutting and rubbing the sides of their face on you is a sure sign your cat loves you. When your cat rubs up against your ankles, it is his way of showing affection. He would rather rub up against your face, but he just can’t reach! Jumping up on counters and furniture is just a way for your kitty to try to be closer to you. When your cat rubs on you he is leaving pheromones on you to tell other cats you belong to him.

Kneading is another way your kitty shows affection. Some people call it “making muffins”. This behavior stems from when your cat was a kitten nursing from his mother. Kneading is your cat telling you he feels loved and comforted by you.

Purring, trills, mews and chirps are all ways cats communicate they feel safe and loved when near you. They are expressing these endearing emotions with their special human.

When your cat curls up in your lap or in bed with you this is another way he is expressing his affection.

The bond between cats is strengthened by mutual grooming; this behavior helps them relax and builds trust and a community scent – used to recognize family members. Cats will often lick their human family, displaying affection and friendship.

Some cats bond to their humans more than others. Kittens socialized with multiple humans at a young age – before 8 weeks old, are more likely to grow into affectionate adult cats. There is even research that suggests a genetic predisposition for some cats to become close to humans.

No matter how your cat shows you he loves you, make sure to show him you care by keeping he in good health – and that starts with an annual Physical by your veterinarian to make sure your kitty will have a long healthy life with the human he loves.